Friday, July 07, 2006

Counting Condoms. Size matters

Last evening was mainly spent counting condoms and femidoms. Why? As I'm part of the project group "Actions Triporteur" for Groupe sida Genève this year, it's also our job to prepare all the material for the people who then will do HIV/AIDS prevention with the triporteur (the triporteur is a tri-wheeled cart, looks like a mobile ice-cream vending bicycle). Actually, the actions triporteur are only part of the real group I'm part of, namely "Target + 35", but that's another story. So, last evening, Victor and I had to prepare the bags carrying the "catch-covers" for each of the six evenings during which prevention will be done with the triporteur. Catch-covers are those little cardbord envelopes carrying (in Groupe sida's case) :

  • 1 regular sized condom + 1 smaller sized condom + 1 dose of lubricant + 1 manual with multilingual safer sex rules (YELLOW catch-cover)
  • 1 regular sized condom + 1 larger sized condom + 1 dose of lubricant + 1 manual with multilingual safer sex rules (VIOLET catch-cover)
Before I continue: Groupe sida doesn't just distribute condoms/femidoms. We always (try to. If the crowd is too big and you're walking past them, it doesn't always work) inform people on the importance of using the right size (and shape) of condoms, and don't give out femidoms without explaining its proper use. If you do prevention, do it right! Why these colors? Yellow is the color of the individual wrapping of the smaller sized condom (we use ""Mamba" of the brand "Cosano" by Migros), and violet the one of the larger sized condom (we use the brand "Hot Rubber" for all other condoms). The problem, if I so might say, with Mamba is that even the condom itself is fluorescent yellow: The marketing was done to aim adolescents between 15 and 20. They seem to have forgotten that there are also male ADULTS who need narrower and shorter condoms :-s I don't think they want to get "extra attention" looking like a disco lamp, as often they already don't feel comfortable being "smaller" than the average. It's so important for men to able to use their right condom size. It's a simple rule: Too big, it might come off, too tight, it might break. Don't buy a bigger size just because you want to "show off" with your partner! And if you do, don't blame the condom if it doesn't work out.

I find it excellent that now, Groupe sida has added the multilingual safer sex rules. I hope they will be read! This year, Groupe sida's focus is with migrants/migration, so that's the reason behind it.

8 Comments:

Blogger Merili said...

Great job you are doing!! Informing the people is the most important part of prevention of HIV/AIDS. I have been working on projects of prevention for almost 2 years in Bosnia and even though this country is the least infected country in Europe people are still not aware of the significance of this virus.
The good thing is: we don't have the 'disco' effect condoms :P

7/7/06 11:55 AM  
Blogger Carissa )i( said...

Hahahahaha :-D I should send you one of those "Mamba"-condoms so you can make people laugh back home LOL

Oh, cool that you're doing prevention work too!! I've been doing it for about one and a half years now...I don't have the exact figures right now, but Geneva itself already has 4000+ infected people, and Geneva's population is only of approx. 200'000 :-s (okay, that's only the city, and not the entire canton, i.e. province).

Would be interesting to hear how you do prevention in Bosnia! Just incase you have time once, drop me a line and I'd love to discuss this (and other random things too if you want to, LOL):

carissasahli@yahoo.com
carissasahli@hotmail.com (MSN)

Tootles! ;-)

7/7/06 12:00 PM  
Anonymous anything Pinay said...

Just curious how one knows one owns condom size :D What is small, medium or large? Would it not be more helpful if the Condom producers describe the sizes into inches or cm? :D

7/7/06 9:34 PM  
Anonymous SwissPinoy said...

"The Pope says the spread of HIV/AIDS should be controlled by fidelity and abstinence, not condoms." Chronicle of Pope Benedict XVI

The Pope is not being very realistic here. Condoms actually do work in terms of preventing the spread of AIDS, unlike the dream of global abstinence.

7/7/06 9:55 PM  
Blogger Carissa )i( said...

LOL Anything Pinay: Just think of trying a pair of shoes ;-) The easiest way of finding out is trying the regular size first I'd say. If it feels tight, then try a larger size, and if it's too loose, then go for a smaller size. There are various sites out there for condoms, there are more than the sizes I've been talking about. And there are also condoms for people allergic to latex: They'd come in polyurethane (same material used for the femidoms). www.lovelife.ch is a good site in general when it comes to HIV/AIDS prevention and safer sex. And www.mysize.ch is useful too (unfortunately it only works for Switzerland).

7/8/06 3:28 AM  
Blogger Carissa )i( said...

The Pope never has been realistic at all when it comes to preventing HIV/AIDS. I know that many catholics won't agree with my points of view on this, I'm very frank about this. With the MILLIIONS of people in the world infected with HIV (especially Africa), you're basically creating orphans right away if people don't protect themselves. Entire generations are dying. And the Pope continues his ultra-conservative course !! If you ask me (maybe catholics will not like me if I say this, but it's my personal opinion and I have a right to post it on my blog), the Catholic church needs to change drastically when it comes to the use of condoms. Not only do condoms protect you agains HIV, they also protect you against STD's (sexually transmitted diseases) and unwanted pregnancies. I think there's nothing more terrible than parents/people who have child and don't love it because they didn't want it in the first place. Better not have a child at all. And when it comes to praising "being faithful" in marriages: We all know that very often, spouses cheat (I won't go into the moral question of cheating. It's not good if you ask me, but unfortunately it still happens). And especially the +35 generation cheats without using a condom because they're just not used to using them. What happens? They might end up giving their wives/husbands HIV or an STD.

Assuming that fidelity and abstinence is the solution is naïve or almost stupid even.

7/8/06 3:46 AM  
Blogger sehdi.com said...

I didn't know that condoms have sizes... LOL. I just know that they're elastic :), so they won't have problem at all, but as I see it now, they can really have a big problem if they don't have the proper size. LOL

7/8/06 9:28 AM  
Blogger Carissa )i( said...

Haha, you can always learn new things ;-) And yes, many people don't know that actually...and quite often, men are just so ignorant when it cones to their size. I mean, every woman knows her bra size...okay, this is slightly different, but you get the point :-)

The topic is a delicate one: When I do prevention and a man is with a group of friends, it's difficult to ask him what size he needs so I can give him the proper catch-cover. In front of others, most men go "Oh I am XXL!!! Give me the biggest one you have!" :-s It's better to try to take those guys aside quickly and talk with them alone and explain the importance of using the right size. That way, he usually becomes more "realistic" when it comes to what he needs too...

7/8/06 12:19 PM  

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